It’s January 3rd, 2016 and my Facebook and Instagram are still full of people saying what they didn’t accomplish in 2015, what they are going to do differently, and how they are starting over. This is a constant, yearly thing. We make our resolutions and then whine and moan that we didn’t do them at all or as well as we had wanted.
It’s sad that at the end of the year, without fail, we think of all the things we want to do next year and don’t take the time to reflect on all of the good.
Last year Kevin started “the good jar
” for us to open it on Jan 1, 2016 and reflect on all of the good that happened to us instead of the bad. It’s so easy to get lost in the negativity and since our previous couple of years had been so rough we wanted to remember all of the good that actually did happen.
So, on January 1, 2016 we emptied out our jar and went through it all. What was even more fun was after we took turns reading them all we thought of all of the things that we forgot to put in our jar and wished we had!
2015 was a wonderful year! In short, Kevin and I grew up. We got a dog, put a lot of money into savings, bought a family car, had a healthy baby girl and spent a lot of time with family.
So, we’ve made this our new yearly tradition. The Good Jar has changed my perspective on the New Year’s Resolutions concept. I’m very critical of myself so I usually end the year going, “I’m still fat. I didn’t lose enough weight.” or “I didn’t reach my new pace goal so I clearly didn’t exercise enough.” I end the year frustrated with myself. Adding “good” to the jar will really help me keep things in perspective. Instead of reflecting on all the things I didn’t accomplish I’ll be reflecting on all the things I did. I also don’t want Brooke growing up and seeing me be hard on myself. I want her to have fierce confidence, and since kids (especially little girls) model after their own mothers; I will find my Fattitude again this year.
This years jar will surely be a year of firsts, as it’s Brooke’s first year of life! I think it’ll be really neat when Brooke (and someday maybe one day sibling) can add to the jar themselves. We’ll be able to see what they viewed as “good” throughout their year and what was important to them.
I’m excited for 2016 and all that it’ll bring for our little family. I’m excited for my body to finish healing and feel good so I can get cleared for exercise. I’m anxious to set new mom PRs, because I’m viewing anytime with a stroller as a new PR for me. I’m excited to actually cook and try new recipes now that the thought of cooking doesn’t repulse me.
Mostly, I’m excited that I finally feel like I’m living again.
Brooke (inside of wrap) and me wishing you a Happy New Year!